So this week’s topic on the NAS is about being friends with guys. Which, when I was dating, I was noooot. I had some male acquaintances that I would consider “friends” but I wasn’t comfortable sharing my heart with them, or really pursuing authentic friendship… because it isn’t really necessary.
Now that I’m single, I do have more guy friends, but they are all my coworkers and people that I just would never even consider dating. People always say that the reason guys and girls can’t be friends is because someone will always be attracted to the other person, buuuut despite attraction, I wouldn’t be giving up my virtue for any of these guys, you know?
When I get married… I don’t think having a male friend will be necessary… I think couple friends are necessary for sure. But just straight up dude friends? Not a thing. And vice versa. I was extremely jealous of a girl that I was good friends with when my ex and I were together, because they were close friends. It’s important to know people of the opposite gender, but honestly, being bff’s with a guy is usually not the best idea. Your future relationship isn’t worth it.
Linking up this week with Jen and the other lovelies from this series.
Alsooooo I’m participating with the OTHER Jen (of Conversion Diary fame) in her epic blogging challenge, which means a post from me every day for seven days. AH. Can’t handle it. But I’m going to try.
Catch ya TOMORROW, lovebugs.